I went to NYC and Boston with a friend around 7 years ago and I don't think our friendship will ever be the same. She wanted to shop the whole time while I wanted to see landmarks and explore!
Have you ever vacationed with a friend? How did it go?
I went to NYC and Boston with a friend around 7 years ago and I don't think our friendship will ever be the same. She wanted to shop the whole time while I wanted to see landmarks and explore!
Have you ever vacationed with a friend? How did it go?
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
No but I really want to! I almost took my BFF to the caribbean last year but then we decided to TTC instead so we couldn't afford it lol
knowing my friend - we would both be content to lie on the beach all day.. or swim with dophins, do yoga on the beach or take surfing lessons. We know each other really well and would have no problem telling the other what we want to do.
pomegranate / 3809 posts
Yes, a few times. I've vacationed to Vegas and Costa Rica with one of my good friends. Spain and Thailand with another. We have the same vacationing style and had a great time!
hostess / wonderful honeydew / 32460 posts
I went to Ohio, NY and DC with a friend of mine!
honeydew / 7230 posts
We went to the Czech Republic with four of our friends recently. It actually went really well! I think it worked out so well because we didn't spend every second together. Instead we took time to sort of be on our own (with our spouses). My husband and I went to the Dominican Republic with my best friend and her husband last winter. We were all trapped together at a small resort and it got to be a little much. Her husband and I definitely started to get on each other's nerves!!
GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts
We have done like 3 or 4 girls weekend beach trips and they have all gone smoothly. But the agenda is always just laying on the beach and drinking.
apricot / 348 posts
I've gone on two vacations with my best friend, to Cancun and to Vegas. Both went great but we've known each other since we were 4 years old.
DH and I took a trip to Philly earlier this year for a baseball game he wanted to see, and we went with a close couple friend of ours. We talked about what we wanted to do while there (see the historic stuff, eat really yummy food, go to the baseball game) and had a blast!
eggplant / 11824 posts
My friend and I stayed in the Lizzie Borden house (it's a B&B now) and slept in the room where the step mom was axed! It was spooky!!
We also went to NYC a few times. My friend went a little nutty, but that had nothing to do with our friendship or travels
pomegranate / 3716 posts
Yes, it's fun! Lets see, 2 college spring break trips, a NYC long weekend with 2 girlfriends, Vegas with 6 friends and we all piled into ONE regular hotel room, road trip to Toronto with 2 couples, girls trip to SF, and a big trip to Hawaii for a friends destination wedding, but we turned it into a week long trip with a big group of us!
admin / watermelon / 14210 posts
Yes the last time was a short trip to New Orleans a couple years ago before we had kids. It was so much fun. I really regret not doing it more but it can be hard to find the perfect travel buddy that wants to spend the same amount as you and do the same things as you and not drive you crazy by being together 24/7!
pomegranate / 3503 posts
I went on a couple trips with a group of friends and it never worked out where. Decision making was very difficult. One or two friends I can do.
coconut / 8234 posts
Yes! I've been to London, Toronto, Cuba, Las Vegas, and New Orleans with friends. All of those trips were memorable, some for the wrong reasons!
grapefruit / 4819 posts
Yes, but the friends I travelled with were friends I made whilst living overseas. Ten of us were recruited over to London together and whilst we didn't know each other ahead of time, several of us became quite close almost immediately. We travelled everywhere together - getting away every third weekend or so. Occasionally we did the longer trip but we were always jetting off somewhere for the weekend and we never had an issue.
Granted, we all moved overseas with the intention of seeing as much of the world as possible, so we all had quite similar travelling styles (i.e. lots of getting out to experience the culture, not so much sitting on the beach doing nothing). There are definitely friends from home that I would never even consider travelling with as I know it would just be stressful and possibly damage our friendship!
GOLD / wonderful grape / 20289 posts
Ive done it a few times and it was always fine. For the most part we have the same interests, and when we didn't we just went our separate ways for a bit.
clementine / 930 posts
Two spring breaks, both involving 24 hours in a car, Vegas with a big group, and Vegas with another couple.
The spring breaks both had issues, but I think that had more to do with immature drunkeness (we were all around 20/21...). Vegas with the group we had no problems, and Vegas with the couple, he was being kind of moody but she and I got along great!
wonderful grape / 20453 posts
I have and it's been so much fun! But we always talk ahead of time about what we're going to do. And we always do a little bit of both. Actually, there have been 4 or 5 of us that meet up in one city. Last year, we went to DC. This year was supposed to be New Orleans, but two of us are pregnant.
cantaloupe / 6800 posts
Yeah, i've taken a friend with me to Las Vegas, and we have a family beach house, so we almost always took friends with us.
wonderful cherry / 21504 posts
I did spring break trips in college with friends- one with one friend to visit another friend studying abroad in England, another typical Caribbean spring break, but I don't count them because college was just a totally different time. And I've vacationed to visit friends, but one of us is always on home base. I've travelled with my sister, who is my BFF, and we are great travel partners, with a similar mix of laid back and active time, different strengths (I'm better at planning and organizing and getting good deals, she is better at encouraging actual active things, like knows how to put up a tent while camping).
cantaloupe / 6730 posts
I went to Oahu once with a friend. Never again! I wanted to lie on the beach and go walking and such. She thought it was too hot, she got jetlagged and had to he back at the hotel by 7 to call her parents. Only time she was happy was when she was shopping.
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts
I think it's always been with at least 2 friends! Chicago, Vegas, Miami, Cruise, etc.
I think that group trips always make for a better trip than 1 on 1~!
pineapple / 12802 posts
I've done a couple girls weekends with 3 of my closest girls. I'm leaving tomorrow for another one. Our trips are never huge, we usually just go within driving distance and the agenda is always to chill and drink. None of us have a lot of expendable cash so shopping and extravagant meals and partying is never really an option.
pomelo / 5789 posts
@autumnlove: You're so right. Vacationing with a friend can be a horrible idea.
It can also be super fun if you're on the same page.
I think it all depends on your travel style and if they mesh well together. There are the independant travelers, the group travelers, the sightseers, the partiers, the relaxers, the go with the flow travelers, the do it as the locals travelers.
My travel style is super independent and I like to see a city from a local's perspective. I usually research the one or two "must see" touristy spots, but other than that I dont like to make many plans. Maybe dinner or theatre reservations if there is anything in particular that I want to check out. I like to go to bars, and make new local friends, and go do local things.
One of my best friends and I went to Paris together for NYE.
She either wanted to stop and take pictures of everything or was too tired and didn't want to go out.
The bars were too smokey for her so she wouldnt go and party.
For me, if we want to do different things, I just say hey - I'm going to go do this - see you at 7pm at the hotel....but I guess others are less comfortable in foreign countries and aren't willing to do things solo.
That's what I love about my SO. We are so compatible when it comes to traveling. We both wanted to see Chichen Itza and had read about bus tours from Cancun.
I was like "Who needs a bus, let's rent a car, explore, and drive to Chichen Itza"
He was all about it and we had such a great time on our road trip through the Mexican countryside. I drove in Rural Mexico! Stopped at a small town for lunch, found a random local swimming hole / cenote and took a dip. I can only think of one friend that would be up for that kind of adventure.
Suprisingly, when I traveled with MIL to Macchu Picchu, she was a great traveler too. She would either be up for whatever adventure I suggested or she would just tell us that she'd meet up later. I love that!
wonderful olive / 19353 posts
Yup! Our friendship actually got better because we went on vacation together. There are other friends that we'd never vacation with again.
cantaloupe / 6206 posts
Yes! I had a friend I used to take annual international trips with, before I met DH. We spent 10 days in Costa Rica, the following year 11 days in Ecuador, the following year we hiked the Inca Trail together to Macchu Pichu. We traveled well together. A bunch of years ago I went to Puerto Rico with 4 other girls and that did not go so well. I'm not sure I've spoken to any of them since.
eggplant / 11287 posts
Yes! My bff and I went to Hawaii.
two years ago, that same bff, plus another bff and I went on a trip together and it was amazing. I love vacationing with girlfriends. We were (well, are still I guess) young and crazy and just hung out in bikinis and drank cocktails all day and night.
persimmon / 1134 posts
My best friend in highschool came on a family vacation with us and she literally cried the entire week because she was homesick. It was kind of awkward, but we still managed to have some fun.
pineapple / 12053 posts
yep, in college, i went on trips to the bahamas with my BFFs (it was amazing), they came to visit me in italy while i studied abroad (loved it), we went on a cruise to mexico (kinda fun, but also sort of forgettable) and new york with other friends to visit our friends. everything was great.
the only change to a friendship was with the person i studied abroad with... i loved it and wanted to do a lot, but by the end, she hated it. it was hard to reconcile that person with the one i knew and loved. several years later, she confessed that she really wished she would have embraced it more and she missed it.
pomegranate / 3204 posts
In college! For spring break we went South Padre Island TX and the next year to Panama City Florida, it was fun!
honeydew / 7488 posts
We enjoy taking family vacations with other families who have similarly aged children. It helps since you have 2 sets of parents to keep an eye on the LOs, even though you technically you may hvae just as many kids per parent. You can even do a date night on the trip while the other parents stay back and watch the kids, and vice versa. The kids distract themselves, and you could rent an apartment or efficiency type place for cheaper. So, vacationing with friends has worked for us!
pomegranate / 3759 posts
Honestly, I realized I do not do well when travelling with others. I am so independent and have no problems wandering around big cities by myself. To have someone drag me in directions I don't want to go drives me insane. Or if they sleep in till noon and never want to explore just drives me crazy. The only person I can handle travelling with is DH and he knows that I will be better off by myself sometimes!
pomegranate / 3895 posts
I have quite a bit - largely with my closest friend. She and I even spent 5 months in SE Asia/India together when we were in our early 20s. That trip was a little bit hard on our relationship, but we bounced back pretty quickly and are closer than ever now.
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