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I don't even know what to say, but please know how sorry I am for you and your husband for having to be in the position to make this decision. Thinking of you both and sending nothing but good thoughts your way.

I'm so sorry you and your husband have to go through this. My heart breaks for you.

I'm so sorry you're going through this.

Hugs! I'm so sorry you had to make that choice. I'm glad someone else was able to share their story with you. I know it's hard, but I'm sure a lot of people have done the same and just don't talk about it. I would have made the same choice. Again, I'm sorry

I am so sorry that you are going through this, and I can't imagine how difficult a decision that was. I am glad to hear that you and your partner are united in the decision. I am wishing you both the very best.

I'm so sorry you have to go through this.

So sorry you guys had to go through this! My thoughts are with you.

I can't even begin to imagine the pain you're going through. I'm glad you feel comfortable talking here, because this is the most warm and welcoming place. We are all here as a shoulder to lean on through this difficult time.

So sorry that you are going through this.You've obviously put a lot of thought and courage into making this decision and you dont need to justify your choice to anyone but yourself.
Like @princessbaby said, you are very lucky to have the support of your hubby. I planned to see my pregnancy through no matter what, I believe my SO would have felt differently.
We are all here to support you.

I am so sorry that you are going through this, and I can't even imagine the pain of having to make a choice like that. My thoughts are with you and your family during this time.

So very sorry, and my thoughts are with you and your DH..

What an awful situation. I'm so sorry you and your DH are going through this.

I am so sorry that you have to go through this. I know that this was an incredibly difficult and painful decision and I want you to know that my prayers are with you and your hubby.

I'm so sorry that you & your husband are going through this. You have to do what's best for you. I will keep you in my thoughts & prayers. Such a tough situation.

I am so very sorry for you loss.

I'm am so sorry! We did all of the genetic testing and had a CVS too. We would have made the same decision that you did but I cannot imagine having to go through it! We actually had a different issue but ended up reducing our pregnancy. If you want to talk at all, you can email me at my blog address. I wish you and your dh all the best. : (

I am so sorry to sound like the total B here but.. are you really terminating because your child wont be "perfect"??? Why does this child deserve any less of a life just because they have a disorder that is VERY manageable? I have never and will never understand this mentality. I grew up in a family with a brother who was mentally retarded and I can tell you, the only thing it did to us was to teach us unconditional love in the face of what so many people look down on. There were no negative effects for any of us kids based on his disability. And there are so many programs, free programs, to help families of children with disabilities. Especially DS. I am sorry. There are some things that really get at my heart and this is one of them.

I am truly and deeply sorry you are having to go through this at all. Even with my outlook on the mentally handicap, I know I would be devastated to get that kind of news. It is in no way an easy thing to have to deal with no matter what the end result is. No matter what I really hope you are able to find all the love and support from your family and friends you will need. I know I would need it. Again, I am honestly truly and deeply sorry you are having to go through this. It breaks my heart that you are having to hurt so much during a time when you shouldnt. I can't say it enough, I am sorry.

So sorry u r going thru this.... Hoping u find peace and comfort during this difficult time...

I am so deeply sorry that you and your husband are going through this. What a trying tune it must be fur both if you. I agree with pps - there are definitely support groups out there fir this kind of situation. Iwould look into that. iIt can make such a huge difference in your coping and grieving process of you can find others who have been through it. Best of luck to you. Sending lots of love and support..