Please help me play tourist in my own backyard.

Backstory: My husband doesn't like to fly or travel really and thinks since we already live in a destination state we shouldn't bother vacationing elsewhere. He has thankfully agreed to a blow out staycation of sorts.

Vacation needs:
Hotel/ resort that pampers- spa for me, nice bar with huge TV for him.
Night life close by (taxi/ walk)- lounge with DJ or live music
Daytime sites and activities- festival, tours/ exhibits, adventure, ocean fun etc
Beach- it's not a vacation unless I tan (burn )

Given our vaca needs where would you park yourself for say 5-7 days in Florida? Given any past trips that conincided with something cool happening like Art Basel in Miami when would you come?

TIA