Hi bees... I'm incognito again! My husband and I are moving soon, as he took a voluntary transfer with his company. However, we were pretty disappointed to find out that they will be lowering his salary by $5,000 - a more than 10% drop - as a "cost of living" adjustment.

I did a little research online and many resources do claim that the cost of living will be lower in our new city, but I don't feel that is true at all. Taxes are higher, and while real estate is cheaper, we will be renting and paying $200 MORE per month for a comparable townhouse.

I really feel like DH has a leg to stand on to try and negotiate this. The problem is that his company says they have a non-negotiation policy for salaries. He has talked to a few colleagues and they all said they took serious hits when they moved, and it just is something you have to accept.

To me, it's one thing to adjust for cost of living, but it's another to expect an employer to LOWER their standard of living considerably. He is moving, not being demoted!

I told DH I would help him put together an email to his HR representative to address this issue. I would really appreciate insight or advice from any of you professional bees on this. Thanks!