My husband and I were supposed to help move my mom into my sister's house on Sunday, but Friday night my sister texted to say that our brother was going to help on Saturday, instead. We already had plans for Saturday, and didn't have a sitter lined up for our LO, so I didn't offer to do anything.

I texted her tonight to ask her how the move went, and she seems to be quite put off with me.

I'm just so over all the drama. She lets people walk all over her and takes on waaaaay more than she can handle so that she can act like a martyr. It makes me crazy most of the time, but then I feel guilty that she's doing all this (letting our mom move in, finding renters for our mom's place, etc, etc) and I'm not really contributing. But I also feel a lot of this is unnecessary and over exaggerated.

I just want to have decent, grown up relationships with my family. Is that too much to ask!?!