LO is affectionate but not super demanding in the cuddle department. She wanted to be held for her first 6 weeks round the clock, but after that has been in her own room at night and during naps with no problems.
DH and I are both not very cuddly people, so those first 6 weeks were pretty hard and we both felt very touched-out.
We tried babywearing, but it obviously didnt really take off for our family.
Nursing didn't bother me, though. I always seemed more interested in it than LO was for the most part. If I didn't offer, she never requested after the first few months (we supplemented and she was in daycare, so she was still being fed!)
How snuggly is your LO?