how does your 12 month old (give or take) greet you when you get home from being gone all day? My first use to run to me - I remember saying I felt like a celebrity when I walked into the room with him. Oliver - he will smile and maybe come to me, but the second I pick him up he immediately starts pointing at where he wants me to take him. Like there is no real re-connection.. I am concerned we aren't bonded