When I was growing up, my dad wouldn't pay the bills so our power, water, cable and other utilities might be turned off. At the time, I thought we were poor. Looking back, it was my dad's spending habits.
My parents were no where rich (both worked) and I think we were lower middle class but I always had a roof over my head, food to eat, medical insurance and never needed welfare.
It wasn't until my mom was laid of from her job recently, now on unemployment and does not have health insurance that I realized that I didn't have it that hard. My mom has a foot injury and my sisters and I had to look for a clinic that would take her. I had no idea where to look. I always had medical insurance.
The thing that was hard was some emotional and psychological problems I had growing up. Growing up in a strict Asian family where verbal and physical abuse was normal is what made my life hard. I didn't cope as well as my siblings.
Later in life because of my parents finances, I had to become independent at an early age. I've been paying for my own cell phone since I was 17. My college education was just on me. Although, my parents did help out where they could. Wedding was definitely on me and the DH. With a tiny portion from my parents and MIL.
So that's the hardest part of my life. I've definitely learned a lot from my past and it's good seeing how I've grown. I have wondered how my brothers and sisters and I all came out normal... Well as normal as can be.
So overall, I struggled the most with my emotions and getting through life. I didn't struggle physically.
How hard has your life been? Have you struggled?
Feel free to share!
ETA: Forgot about dealing with IF. It seems as though my emotions will probably always be tested. I need to remember that for the future.