C will be 9 months next week, so I wanted to get started really planning her birthday party so we could budget for it. We have unique situation, DH is military and he's getting deployed a couple weeks after her birthday, so we're going home. So, we're having one party in England and then one in the states after he leaves and I fly home.

I was making preliminary guest lists and we're looking at one party for 40-50 people and one for 60-80 people! WTF?!

How many people did you invite/are you inviting to your LO's 1st?