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Would wearing her in wrap or carrier help you feel less guilty? I think it's ok for you baby to have some alone down time, it's helping them be independent and content on their own. As long as their not unhappy or being ignored all day you're ok.

I let C down as long as she would tolerate and was happy. I dont regret doing it at all. Shes a very independent girl who can entertain herself now.

I wasnt able to a lot when she was tiny because she would justbscream, so It was a massive relief when she would let me. Dont feel guilty.

I put R down as much as she will let me. Which isn't often but I keep hoping. I want her to be able to entertain herself and rely on us for everything all the time

My LO would be okay for 30 min or so when laying on his back on the activity gym/mat. I would sit down on the floor next to him for a little bit, but I would also use that time to do a quick chore or to start making dinner. Same with the swing or bouncer chair - I usually felt like 30 min was enough time by himself (unless he fell asleep in the swing, then I wouldn't bother him!).

I would not move her if she's happy and content. I think it's good for them to develop some independence from you. Trust me, you'll want that as they grow older and clingy.

I set E down quite a bit. She's content to chill by herself for 30-60 min sometimes (especially first thing in the morning). I get so much done! She also hangs out in her boppy next to me at intervals throughout the day. Honestly, I want to avoid holding her 24/7 because its just unreasonable and I don't want her flipping out at daycare because she doesn't get held all day. She lets me know when she needs some loving.