At what age do you think it's best to stop cosleeping?
At what age do you think it's best to stop cosleeping?
pomegranate / 3383 posts
Honestly, for as long as you want! If co-sleeping works best for your family then why stop just because you feel outside pressure?
**I'm a fairly non-AP mom who has a son who NEVER liked co-sleeping.**
wonderful cherry / 21504 posts
For my family? A few months. But it's up to you, your so, and your Lo for your family!
But really in most cases it seems like some point before kindergarten is a good time- but who am I to judge if it works longer for another family?
bananas / 9628 posts
whenever one of the family members wants their own space, either because they sleep better that way, want more privacy, or they just feel more comfortable that way. i don't think there is a right answer for everyone.
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
I think it is different depending on each family! Some families do best co-sleeping until even preschool or kindergarten age and I see nothing wrong with that, if that is what works best for their family!
Once J was about 4 months he wasn't sleep as well anymore because he realized he slept with his milk so he could get it anytime he wanted. So he started sleeping in his own crib at 4 months. But I would have been willing to go longer if I had felt the need or desire. Sometimes I still relish the nights he cuddles with me!
I think you have to decide what are the best sleeping situations for your family.
hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25556 posts
It's totally up to the family. We have family members who coslept until their son decided he was too old for it. I think he was 10 when he quit completely.
cherry / 220 posts
Thanks ladies. We started cosleeping when I went back to work when LO was 18 months. He started waking at night again and I missed him so much that I didn't mind getting extra cuddles in at night. Now he'll be 4 soon and we are still cosleeping. We both like it, and I don't really see any negatives, but I definitely feel judgement from friends and family when it comes up that we cosleep.
wonderful pear / 26210 posts
My son is 3, we cosleep, and I don't plan to stop until he doesn't want us there.
pomegranate / 3565 posts
My son is 16 months old and we co-sleep. Sure, sometimes I wish he slept by himself. But if he sleeps best that way, then I sleep best too! My husband says to quit worrying and just go with the flow. That's my plan!
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