I have a HS friend who just lost her baby yesterday at 9 weeks. It was her first pregnancy and she had just announced it a few days ago. I'll be seeing her at a shower next week and I'm wondering how should I approach her? This is honestly the first experience with loss I've had and I'm so sad for her.

Should I ask her how she is? Should I mention the loss? Should I just not say anything about it as to not remind her about it? I want to be sensitive to her loss and let her know that I care but I don't want to keep bringing it up to her either, especially if I'm the 100th person to ask her how she's doing.