Warning sort of long post.
My DH and I have struggled to conceive for 23 month. During that time I was leaning on my Sis in law for advice bc she and my Bro did IVF twice resulting in a beautiful niece.
My sister is pg with her second and told my SIL thinking since she has a LO that she would be fine with the news. SIL was upset that sis is pg. Also SIL's Best friend is pg with their 3rd and she was upset.
DH and I was ready to start the IVF process. We just had to wait for AF to arrive. Turns out we got a BFP.
I want to respect my SIL since she's been really wonderful about my journey. She still is having trouble ttc. How do I break the news to her gently? I know how it feels because we were struggling when my Sister, SIL, and BF were pg a year and a half ago.