Help! I feel so silly for posting this but I can't for the life of me figure out how to get nice soft curls/waves without kinking the ends of my hair. Usually I get 50/50 normal looking ends (I usually leave the very ends out of the curling iron) and the rest kinked ends. So frustrating. My mom doesn't wear makeup aand has very short hair so she never taught my sister and I how to hair/makeup, wasn't her thing!

I've watched Kate Bryans (the small things blog) tutorial many times but I just can't get the hang of it. Please tell me I'm not the only one! Share your tricks & tips