if you went back to work after LO was born, did you try to establish a schedule before your return date? our loosey-goosey, go-with-the-flow, i-have-no-clue-what's-going-on approach is not going to fly with our long commutes and getting LO to daycare.

if you did try to set a schedule before going back to work, what was your strategy? namely, did you wake up LO from afternoon naps to try and set a bedtime? it kills me to wake him up from a nap because it's so hard to get him to fall asleep in the first place, but eventually he's going to need to go to bed by 6:30pm!

how long did it take for things to settle into a rhythm once as you went back to work?