So, I want to start by saying that I really do love my MIL and she's a great woman but since the our daughter was born (her 5th grandchild, 2nd granddaughter), she has been acting kind of crazy... and it's starting to piss me off.

Everytime she's around, she feels the need to tell me that our daughter looks just like my husband, and she gets offended when people say she looks anything like me. That's not that big of deal, but what's been really bothering me is how she keeps taking DD from me when I'm holding her... without asking! How do you tell her no?

And today, I have a cold so she offered to "take DD away for a few hours" so I could recouperate. Um... I think it would be nice to have her visit and help out (IF she'll even help out instead of just hold LO), but I don't want her taking her away from me for a few hours... especially when I have no extra milk pumped.

I keep getting the feeling from her that she doesn't care to have me in the picture with *her* granddaughter. And that I'm no where near as good as her son.

Sorry... just venting. Thanks for listening.