I don't know if this is a weird question - but how is it possible to transition from actively TTC to NTNP? How can you be so casual knowing all that you know already? How do you ignore CDs, CM - once you know, how can you un-know? For all you ladies that are NTNP - what does this mean exactly? What is your process??

I'm going through a really stressful time in my life right now and while we've unsuccessfully tried for 3 cycles, I think I need to take a step back from actively TTC until things in life calms down a bit. But I don't want to stop, so NTNP seems to be the answer, but honestly, I don't know what this means. Even without charting and using OPKs, I will inevitably be aware of what CD I'm in, thereby knowing around what day I am most fertile, and what CM I have - how can you ignore these things?