I need to tell my friend that I'm pregnant and I'm dreading it. This was a very close friend - we have gone our separate ways in the last 5 years due to life circumstances and moving farther apart, but I still consider her a good friend. She has been struggling with infertility for a couple of years and is currently on her 3rd round of IVF. She has expressed many times to me how hard it is to hear about pregnancies and other people's kids so I know my pregnancy news won't be well received. Any suggestions on how to word the text in a sensitive way? What would you say?