So, I am horrible with confrontation and putting my foot down when it comes to my family. We recently put DD in a dance class. She is very into dancing and all things girly so it has been a big hit. It was intended to be for us to do as a family or take her one on one for some special time together and maybe grab dinner or froyo after. Especially after baby brother gets here next month. It’s also a good way to kill time Monday evenings

Well my grandma has totally butted in and has just declared that she is going to take her to her class and said that it can “be a thing for them to do together”. It all started with her wanting to come to one class which was totally fine. It all caught me off guard so I was just like oh ok then.

Well now I don’t know how to go back and say no! The class was our idea and we are paying for it. How would you nicely say to back off and find your own activity to do together?! I was thinking of doing it by text… I feel bad because I know that my grandma is just excited and likes to be a part of her life but I just don’t think I’m going to be able to let this one go.

This all sounds very “first world problems” but my patience and tolerance at over 35 weeks pregnant is very low