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I found him not breathing...wish it wasn't real. (But he's okay!)

  1. wonderstruck

    pomegranate / 3791 posts

    Holy crap, I can't imagine the terror you must have been feeling. Thank god he is okay, I hope you get some answers ASAP!

  2. Bao

    GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22276 posts

    Wow that is so scary, so glad he is ok.

  3. Applesandbananas

    pomegranate / 3845 posts

    Hugs. I am so glad he's okay!

  4. Lindsay05

    pomegranate / 3759 posts

    Wow. So scary. So glad he is ok!

  5. lamariniere

    pineapple / 12566 posts

    I'm glad he's ok! I hope you get some answers soon.

  6. Synchronicity

    grapefruit / 4089 posts

    What a nightmare! I'm so glad he is OK. Hope you're hanging in there!

  7. Mrs Spoon

    kiwi / 603 posts

    So scary!! Glad he's ok!!

  8. Rubies

    hostess / eggplant / 11068 posts

    So glad he's okay and hope your ped gets on it with a GI referral.

  9. Happygal

    pomelo / 5000 posts

    What a heart stopping moment! I would be drinking a big glass of wine while watching infant CPR videos right now. So sorry!

  10. HLK208

    pineapple / 12234 posts

    Oh my gosh, so, so scary

    I'm sorry this happened and I hope it doesn't again. So glad he is okay though.

  11. Baby Boy Mom

    pomegranate / 3983 posts

    Oh my goodness, so scary! Glad he's ok!

  12. erwoo

    pomegranate / 3053 posts

    Wow, how scary! I'm so glad he's okay!

  13. travellingbee

    hostess / papaya / 10219 posts

    @spaniellove: What breathing symptoms did you notice and tell the doctors about that they were concerned about to begin with?

  14. travelgirl1

    cantaloupe / 6630 posts

    Oh my gosh, how terrifying! Hugs mama

  15. Mrs. Tiger

    blogger / pomegranate / 3044 posts

    Oh god how awful.

    Maybe you can consider asking for a medical grade apnea alarm? The one we had alarmed after 5 seconds, and it was either electrodes or a belt around his chest. We saw a pulmonologist to get it, not GI. Based on the episode today you can ask your ped for a referral.

    Good luck, I hope that doesn't happen again!

  16. Pepper

    pomelo / 5820 posts

    My heart and stomach dropped so badly when I read the title! So glad he is OK!! That is so scary.

  17. yerpie110

    nectarine / 2771 posts

    That is beyond scary!! Glad he is okay

  18. fairy

    persimmon / 1343 posts

    terrifying! so glad you had the snuza to alert you and I hope that doesn't happen again!

  19. Tanjowen

    nectarine / 2521 posts

    @spaniellove: So glad he is ok! If it helps, I know Babies R Us offers infant CPR courses. We did one and it was great.

  20. BabyBoecksMom

    GOLD / papaya / 10166 posts

    I read the title of this and my heart sunk. How scary!!! What did your ped say when you told them?

    So, just a thought (please don't take this the wrong way), but do you think the swaddle could have contributed? The reason I ask is because TX state laws won't allow daycare's to swaddle babies (even in the Velcro swaddles) because there is a risk of suffocating if it's too tight. I doubt that's it, but wanted to throw that out there. .

  21. spaniellove

    honeydew / 7916 posts

    @BabyBoecksMom: That's a good question; I use the Love to Dream swaddle which is a looser zip up swaddle made of jersey fabric. So he's able to wiggle his arms around and even suck on his hands to soothe himself and he doesn't feel anything confining on his chest or legs. But there's nothing loose enough that it could cover his face, if that makes sense.

  22. Anagram

    eggplant / 11716 posts

    @spaniellove: I'm so glad he's okay....that sounds completely terrifying.

  23. spaniellove

    honeydew / 7916 posts

    I don't know if this has anything to do with it but I did find him with spitup coming out of his mouth? So there's a remote chance that had something to do with it.

  24. blackbird

    wonderful grape / 20453 posts

    I'm so glad he's ok!!! How super scary

  25. misstatas

    coffee bean / 37 posts

    I would freak out! We have an Angelcare alarm that goes of on a semi-regular basis. So far it has all been false alarms, although she did stop breathing once while I was holding her. Her entire body stiffened up and I had to pat her a few times to get her to breathe. Her doctor said as long as it only happened once there wasn't any reason to worry. Yeah, right...

  26. Mae

    papaya / 10343 posts

    @spaniellove: wow so scary! I would definitely push for a referral to a specialist to look into this asap! Our last ped didn't take my concerns over our LO's eating seriously so I switched peds and she immediately took me seriously AND fixed the problem. A good doctor who believes you is so important.

  27. LovelyPlum

    eggplant / 11408 posts

    @spaniellove: what did the doc have to say after this happened today? Hoping they are going to help you quickly!

    ( And in case you need a giggle to help you relax, my phone tried to ask you, "what did the fox say?" )

  28. spaniellove

    honeydew / 7916 posts

    @Mae: @LovelyPlum: My ped agrees that the breathing issues are related to the reflux and it really needs to be taken care of but yet again the office is not cooperating with us on expediting the referral/appointment. We need them to contact CHOP directly so J can be seen asap and have been asking for this for days now. I'm getting kind of frustrated after looking at his growth charts again and realizing that his growth dropped off after the reflux started. It's been 2 months now!

  29. LovelyPlum

    eggplant / 11408 posts

    @spaniellove: dude, your child stopped breathing. They need to get a move on!! Do they know about today? I'm so sorry that they are making this harder for you than it needs to be.

  30. MapleMoose

    grapefruit / 4213 posts

    Thank goodness he is okay. What a super scary ordeal.

  31. photojane

    cantaloupe / 6164 posts

    Oh gosh. So scary! I hope you get all of the tests and answers you need!

  32. mrbee

    admin / wonderful grape / 20724 posts

    @spaniellove: Wow, so glad he's ok!!! And amazing that the monitor caught this, great job!!!!

    This is a random thought, but I read a while ago that they found a correlation between certain forms of hearing loss and SIDS:

    http://www.seattlechildrens.org/media/press-release/2007/07/002259/

    I'm sure with all the hearing tests your son has gotten they've already checked for this, but thought I'd mention it just in case!

  33. Ms.Badger

    clementine / 918 posts

    @spaniellove: the next time anything is up just take him to the ER, then you will get admitted. Maybe you'd rather not be admitted but it's the fastest way to get everything done and see the specialists he needs. Not breathing is too scary to be afraid of an admit. However, if it is isolated and he doesn't have any more episodes, feel free to wait for the referral. Just my two cents from having been there, I never regretted going because there was true medical need and I know I would have regretted not going if something bad happened

  34. Ginabean3

    pomegranate / 3401 posts

    Ah! So scary! Glad he is ok. Infant CPR is a great idea....we had to take a class before they would let us bring LO home from NICU. I actually printed out step by step instructions to remind myself how to so it and posted it up in her room and living room....I know I get really frazzled in an emergency and the reminders would help!

  35. CakeLady

    pear / 1657 posts

    So scary and so glad he's ok! I hope you can get in to see the specialists soon.

  36. spaniellove

    honeydew / 7916 posts

    @mrbee: Oh interesting...I can't figure out if they mean only right vs left or just right vs control group, but his type of hearing loss does involve the hair cells of the inner ear on both sides.

  37. mrbee

    admin / wonderful grape / 20724 posts

    @spaniellove: I am far from an expert, so I defer to your doctors! Would be awesome if they could do this test they're talking about...

  38. artsyfartsy

    cantaloupe / 6692 posts

    OMG. That's so scary I can't even imagine!! I'm glad you have that snuza.

  39. Mrs. Jacks

    blogger / pineapple / 12381 posts

    Apnea for > 20 seconds warrants an admission for ALTE (apparent life threatening event), where they will coordinate GI issues, pulmonary and possibly neuro. I don't like those home monitors, but your little guy has enough random stuff that I wouldn't take any chances. Did he have any color changes?

  40. coopsmama

    cantaloupe / 6059 posts

    That is absolutely terrifying. I'm glad you caught it and all was well and I'm so glad you're being proactive and making sure he gets the tests he needs. You're a wonderful mama!

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