First I just wanted to say I love this site and people are so kind and helpful!

Okay so here is some background info. I'm 5 weeks pregnant and I have a 2 year old with a speech delay and a 1 year old. My husband works night shift most the time and a manager of sorts. Right now he is working "peak season" cause he works for a major packaging/ shipping company and things are busy. I dont see him all week except the weekend.

I need help with some household balance. It feels a little chaotic right now. I'm normally a very clean and organized person, but the past few months I've been really slacking. Not cause I dont care but because mentally and physically just feel out of it and exsaughted. I am bipolar and on meds and ADHD so I cant get a bit overwhelmed sometimes. Hubby helps when he can on weekends but right now I have to do a lot. I have a TON of laundry that I need to put away and organize. I also just need to deep clean and declutter. I just dont have a ton of time cause my kids are still at that stage where they need my attention a lot. I try to clean at night when the kids go to bed but I'm so tired I dont do it. I think I'm just out of sorts and need some tips on how you ladies stay on top of everything. I'll have a 3rd baby come next year in August and I need to get on top of everything. Any cleaning schedules, videos or tips would be great! I need some motivation!!
Pic of my kids just cause I think they are cute!