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If you want to make something, could you find a blank book or journal and write about your story/journey. How much it has meant to you, etc. And towards the end you can include an ultrasound picture and talk about your hopes and dreams and have a "to be continued..." page.

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As you know I also went through IVF (and am again right now) and I know exactly what you mean about despite all of the setbacks and heartbreak, our marriage was at its best because all we had was each other to lean on. We had 2 miscarriages and my "diagnosis" of a translocation requiring IVF all in the first year of marriage. And I remember talking to a close friend and crying saying that despite the worst things happening to us, it was still the best year of my life because of him.

PS can't believe you're 13 weeks already!

@SweetiePie: yes that would be cute! It's amazing how fast all the pregnancy emotions slip away.

For one of our anniversaries I made DH a deck of cards, "52 reasons I love you". It takes a lot of thought to come up with 52 reasons, so can be very meaningful/sentimental.

Perhaps a photo album with hand written captions?

@yellowbeach: oh my gosh, duh. I'm seriously a moron. I was thinking about the fact that Oct 5 is one month away and subtracted 14-1. I was on my way to the RE and clearly was a little distracted. Haha.

If you can swing it I'd do a weekend away somewhere. Once your LO comes it's just so much harder to get couple time like that. If it was me I'd do a weekend at our favorite inn/spa, get a couples massage and go to a nice dinner.