I WAHM 90% of the time, if not all week. DH is gone some days from before the kids/I awake until after bedtime.

So naturally, I end up doing a lot of the house work on top of a full-time job. Both because I have an easier flex schedule and because I can't stand having things lying around for DH to find time to do it.

He balances it out in other ways though, so it works for our household/our relationship! Though some days it's still draining and there's definitely times where it seems thankless!