Hubs and I told everybody within 3 weeks of us finding out that we were pregnant in July and when we miscarried it was hard to have people asking and having to tell them. Now we are TTC again, and I am wondering how long we will wait to tell them. Because we chart, we'll know when we are about 4-4 1/2 weeks pregnant. We told our families at 6 weeks last time. I don't know that we would wait any longer than we did last time. Hubs and I were talking about it, and I told him that Thanksgiving will be right around O time, and he replied with "then we can tell people at Christmas" which would be 7 weeks (assuming we get pregnant this cycle).

If you miscarried before, did it change when you announced your good news second time around?