for those of you that are taking a long to get pregnant (for whatever reason)..and by long time i mean over a year...did you continue to follow all of the "just in case you're pregnant" rules? ie, taking folic acid, not eating/drinking things pregnant women shouldn't eat/drink (like alcohol or sushi). i've been TTC for over 3 years (unexplained infertility) and i've sort of thrown all of those rules out of the window now. but every once in a while (because we are still actively trying) i wonder if i should be taking folic acid or not eating deli meat or something. what are you doing?