My husband is the SAHD and I work. How is your partner helpful or not helpful when they get home?

I'm trying to be as helpful as I can. I do spend time with the babies when I get home so he can take a nap or finish chores (I do them, too) or do whatever he wants to do.

I have suggested taking one of the babies with me if I need to run errands but he always just tells me to go and he'll stay and watch the babies. (Though, I guess he thinks if he has to watch one baby, why not watch both. They are not mobile, yet. Maybe he'll take advantage of this later.)

I pretty much let him buy whatever he wants (within reason). He's saving us a lot of money by not having to put our kids in daycare so I don't complain about his purchases. (I think I read an article that broke down how much a SAHP should make and I realized how lucky I am to have him stay at home.)

I'm not perfect. There are things I'm sure he wishes I would do when I get home and I'm trying to change those things.