what would it be???
For me, what a whole freaking 4-6 weeks to see if it our BFP cycle or not...i would change the length of time or produce atleast two oppurtunities a month for a BFP...
what would it be???
For me, what a whole freaking 4-6 weeks to see if it our BFP cycle or not...i would change the length of time or produce atleast two oppurtunities a month for a BFP...
nectarine / 2705 posts
ooh, I like that! I wish you could condense the waiting periods too. And I wish that CM wasn't so fickle and you could jump your husband's bones at the drop of the hat with no dryness issues Is that TMI? Oh well
honeydew / 7916 posts
I'd take away the whole infertility bit...I could understand maybe getting pregnant on my 3rd cycle or something, but the part where it goes on and on is kind of a bummer.
papaya / 10570 posts
I'd make it so that I could put sperm in myself! Then, I'd never have to worry about DH's schedule or making him BD with me over and over when he just wants to read a book - in fact, I could handle the whole thing without him having to worry one iota. Controlled bliss!
wonderful cherry / 21504 posts
The waiting. Like, I would like a little green light saying-- BD NOW! Then, it would be nice if the waiting period would be a little shorter after that. I'd just like to remove the uncertainty. Should I have that glass of wine? Should I take a test first? Is it stupid to test right now? Just a yes or no would be good.
cantaloupe / 6800 posts
I'd like to know the second we're done BD'ing if i'm going to get pregnant from it.
pomelo / 5228 posts
I'd make our uteruses glow green when ovulating, then pink or blue when pregnant. Easy peasy
squash / 13199 posts
Yeah I just dont like all the guessing and not knowing if you really are ovulating or not, if you really are pregnant or not. I wish there was a window into the uterus to see what the heck was going on
wonderful cherry / 21504 posts
Oh-- I'd also like a guarantee that we would be pregnant by X date. I don't need to know which month it will happen, but I'd feel better knowing that, say, I would be pregnant for sure by March. But the color coded light up uterus would be nice too. It'd be really hard to hide that you are TTC though.
watermelon / 14467 posts
I hate the guessing. I mean, I know when I'm ovulating and when the best times are, but I wish PG symptoms weren't so similar to PMS symptoms. It's hard to not get your hopes up and then be disappointed. I've been waiting to try for years and ugh the continued wait sucks.
grapefruit / 4187 posts
@MrsLilybugg: I 100% agree with you! That is exactly what I was going to say.
I know this is a whole other issue, but I think that the pricing for things like OPK's and pregnancy tests are WAAY too high - in fact most TTC supplies are really expensive. I think that people who decide to repopulate the planet should be able to get these supplies at a low cost and that infertility care should also either be free or very low cost.
pear / 1974 posts
If we can't get rid of the TWW all together, then at least know IMMEDIATELY after O if it worked or not. The hardest part for me is the let down after two weeks of wondering, hoping, taking apart HPTs, fishing them out of the trash - well you get the idea.
GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts
That so many worthy parents wouldn't have to deal with infertility and miscarriages.
nectarine / 2522 posts
I'd say it would be great if we could ovulate for like 3 weeks out of the month. Much better shot at it!!
pear / 1786 posts
@Foodnerd81: yes, I also just want to know that it is going to happen someday. It would be better to know WHEN, but I could be so much more patient if I knew for sure that someday I will definitely be PG.
pomelo / 5041 posts
@kentuckygirl, @foodnerd81: I'd love for everyone who wants to get pregnant to be able to get pregnant, and then to know when it would happen would be awesome!
cantaloupe / 6730 posts
@sweetooth: Haha! That's a good one.
I would also just like to know that I'd be pregnant by such and such date. But I would settle for being able to tell 100% if your are pregnant or not at 1dpo.
cherry / 141 posts
@foodnerd81: I agree!
The anxiety of not knowing with the combination of changing hormones throughout your cycle is the worst!
@MrsCastro crazy how your cycle feels so short before TTC and SOO long after you start....
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