My good friend is currently going through a rough time with her DH's ex. She said the relationship was cordial before but their interactions are all pretty hostile these days.
If you have stepkids, how is your relationship with your SO's ex?
My good friend is currently going through a rough time with her DH's ex. She said the relationship was cordial before but their interactions are all pretty hostile these days.
If you have stepkids, how is your relationship with your SO's ex?
pomegranate / 3329 posts
She's nice to my face but standing ready to stab us in the back. She's awful. I just posted the other day about how she has taken over Dh's family, all she does is badmouth us. I have a "book" of emails/texts that are court ready whenever she wants to go back.
Dh said she was cordial and nice before I came along, I think she's pissed that ruined their relationship by cheating and can't get him back. Spiteful ****
cherry / 134 posts
Not so great! She's nice when we see her in person, but always ready to stab us in the back whenever possible!
ETA: This past year she did take us back to court and didn't get what she wanted so now she's worse than ever! Oh joy!
nectarine / 2530 posts
Smile in person (when she has to acknowledge us), but underhanded-nasty. She basically only gives my DH the info he's owed by law when she wants money. Things got worse for us when she remarried. Her SO won't speak to us (started day one of us meeting him) but has done some pretty nasty things to undermine my DH's relationship with his kids. The whole situation is unfortunate.
blogger / clementine / 985 posts
Honestly I have yet to meet/talk to her. She primarily communicates with Mr. D by email -- actually, that is the only way they have communicated since I have known him -- and it's cordial but terse. Basically the bare minimum of interaction, which is kinda sad, but I do my best to just stay out of it.
pineapple / 12802 posts
We have been together 5 years and the one and only time I have ever even seen her was in a courtroom when she slapped a restraining order on my DH for *attacking* her. Which was a lie. But she got it anyway because the courts favour the mothers.
She's absolutely evil and is damaging her kids by being petty with us.
She's recently gotten better with DH, but she absolutely refuses to meet me or even acknowledge that I exist and her children are told every day that they are not allowed to love me and that I am NOT their family.
These are just a few examples.
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
that's so hard
one of my best friends married a man who already had an 11 yo son. His mom is completely out of their life I think which is for the best. But I can see how that past marriage has left a bitter taste in her husband's mouth. He sometimes treats her with disdain expecting her to be just like his ex-wife. It's so sad
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