Did you have a boy?? All of my friends who used OPKs had a boy! Coincidence?
(Not sure if this is the right board?)
Did you have a boy?? All of my friends who used OPKs had a boy! Coincidence?
(Not sure if this is the right board?)
22 votes
kiwi / 526 posts
You use an OPK the same way you use a home pregnancy test - it's just a stick you pee on that tells you if a hormone is present. Saying that using an OPK means you're more likely to have a boy makes as much sense as saying that using a home pregnancy test means you're more likely to have a girl.
So yes... just a coincidence
nectarine / 2458 posts
Actually google shettles method and it'll explain it. The theory is to have a boy you want to have sex the day if not the day after you ovulate since boy sperm are faster but die easier. If you want a girl you should DTD a few days before since they are slower but live longer.
So if they're having sex as soon as they find out they're ovulating, they should, in theory, be more likely to have a boy.
nectarine / 2458 posts
Oh, and I know MULTIPLE couples that have successfully used the Shettles method to "choose" the sex of their baby.
grapefruit / 4049 posts
Used OPKs for #2 and had a girl! I think we conceived close to ovulation too, so the Shettles theory wasn't true for us in the end.
grapefruit / 4582 posts
@alie: I know. I meant for reasons relating to the shuttles method, as navy_mommy mentioned
@Navy_Mommy: we're they successful?
GOLD / wonderful pea / 17697 posts
I used OPKs and had a boy. We only managed to have sex once, 2 days before ovulation.
nectarine / 2458 posts
@luckypenny: yeah. One was so determined to have a girl they would stop having sex 6 days before she ovulated. It took 6 months to get pregnant, but she had a girl!
cantaloupe / 6791 posts
We used OPKs and we're having a boy. We had sex twice around ovulation- on ovulation day and 2 days before ovulation.
persimmon / 1331 posts
I used opk's, am pregnant, but don't know the sex yet. So I'll come back and vote in about 10 weeks!
ETA: my guess is it's a boy
GOLD / papaya / 10206 posts
We used OPK's for our first and the SMEP and had a little gir.
wonderful olive / 19353 posts
We used OPKs and are having a boy. We DTD 1 day on, 2 days off. According to my calendar, we DTD the day before I ovulated and 2 days after I ovulated.
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