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If you weren't a virgin before marriage...

  1. Alivoo01

    wonderful olive / 19353 posts

    LOL!!! Your mom is too funny!!

    I'm pretty sure my parents knew, but they closed one eye and looked the other way and pretend it hasn't happened. Even when we were living together, my mom would remind me not to and be like you're not right??? To which I replied, of course not mom!! ....... lol

  2. heffalump

    GOLD / wonderful grape / 20289 posts

    @Lozza: I was living with my parents before dh so I didn't have that issue.

  3. DigAPony

    pear / 1787 posts

    I lost my virginity when I was 17 and told my mom about it, so...yeah, they knew! I wasn't raised with the notion that you should remain a virgin until marriage, though, so it wasn't an issue in that way.

  4. LaurenEC

    grape / 99 posts

    Ha, ha, so this sort of happened to me. I had gone to the gyno and my dad is a pharmacist so he is the one who filled my BC (b/c I was on my parent's insurance that had other issues), so they knew that. About 2yrs later I was leaving my (new) boyfriend's (now husband) early in the morning after spending the night there and hit another car, so I had to call and tell my parents, since the car was theirs/on their insurance. No one ever said anything about it, but I'm sure they knew after that.

  5. mrsjyw

    GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts

    my mom will fullheartedly believe that i was a virgin until my wedding day! although, we lived together during our 1 year engagement, so i really think it's a 'don't ask, don't tell' type of understanding we had

  6. thismustbetheplace

    kiwi / 633 posts

    We never officially discussed it, although my mom suggested that I go on birth control to regulate my wonky cycle when I was 17... which happened to coincide with being in my first 'serious' relationship. I was raised Catholic but my parents weren't stupid so I think they just preferred to feign ignorance.

    When I graduated college I was living in my first apartment with my boyfriend (now husband). When my extended family came for my graduation party, my mother asked me to hide his belongings so that my uber-conservative Catholic family wouldn't suspect that we were 'living in sin.' Parents are silly.

  7. ladyfingers

    pomelo / 5331 posts

    Haha um... I think my parents tried not to think about it too much. DH and I lived together before marriage, so whatever my dad thought about that, he certainly didn't share it with me lol.

  8. Mrs. Pen

    blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts

    omg this thread is cracking me up I think it's sooo funny reading everyone's replies hahaha.

    As I am not-so anonymous anymore, I will keep this sacred part of my life private lol

  9. Mrs. Jump Rope

    blogger / coconut / 8306 posts

    I was terrified to tell my dad I was pregnant. I didn't want him to know I had sex.

    My husband and I were married for almost four years when I got pregnant

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