I'm self employed, and slowly easing back into work starting this week about 2 days a week for the next month or two, and eventually 3 days a week in a few months. The majority of the time, LO will be with my MIL at her home which is about 15 mins away. I will often have 1 - 2 nights a week where I have client meetings, work events, and other work-related stuff. I'm a wedding planner, so a lot of my clients need to have meetings after regular work hours.

So on those days, if DH isn't able to pick up LO until 6 or 7, that's pretty much bedtime. (And I know MIL will insist that they stay for dinner, which would stretch it to 8PM before they could leave). How do those of you who work outside the home and send your LO(s) to outside childcare manage to do an early-ish bedtime? Is it even possible?