but went without for their second?

I had a long labor with DS1, checked into hospital when I was at 4cm, with walkable/talkable contractions at 8pm, didn't get an epi til 3am, and delivered DS at just past noon the next day. I pushed for two hours and the epi def wore off before then. It was the worst pain/part of labor/delivery for me.

I had an IV edema and swelled up like the Michelin man the week following delivery.

I don't have any set plans and really am of the camp of "healthy mama, healthy baby," but I am def wanting to try and go natural this time since I didn't really feel complete relief from the epidural the first time.