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I think his love has grown, and he is more loving but he also has gotten more comfortable with me, so maybe he isn't as charming? AKA farting on me is now funny. It goes both ways though, I am probably not as charming as I was in our early dating days. We have been together 3 years.

Well, we're more comfortable now so maybe he acts less loving, but he has stood by me through some rough times, recently, so I'd say he is actually more loving. We've been together about 5 and a half years.

We've been together for 5 years and I would definitely say more. @Bao: and same on the charm! hahahaha !

We've been together for over 10 years, married for over 7. He is more loving now but does less things to show it. He totally spoiled me in the beginning with presents and attention and actions (he once went to CVS and bought all of my shampoo, conditioner, etc etc and refilled everything when they were all running low!) and I always warned him that he shouldn't set the bar so high. He claimed it wouldn't be a problem because he'd always spoil me as much as he did in the beginning. As with most things, I was right

I guess we started out with really strong infatuation and he was a very romantic guy who spoiled me constantly. Now we have a really strong love and he still likes to spoil me, but doesn't always think to do things like he used to

I would say less. He makes it feel that way at least. We've been together for almost 4 years.

@Bao: I mean, I know he loves me..but he just doesn't show it very well.

More, definitely! Although we're about to have a baby so I'm sure things might change.

Been together 9 years.

He has always been super super affectionate--constantly tells me how much he loves me/appreciates me. I think that has gotten greater over the last year, and especially since LO was born. He's just so happy as a dad and with our family and he makes sure I know that. We've been together 5.5yrs, married for 2!

Over 3 years. About the same. He wasn't really into PDA and now it's practically nothing.

Been together almost 5 years and I would say it is about the same. A little more now since I think he is doing all he can to make we feel better about myself right, since I feel huge.

We're not all over each other like we used to be, but he is more loving than he was. Besides, he makes me laugh like no other! We've been together for 6.5 years and married for 2.5 (BabyGloss is almost 6 months).

A bit more, but only because I've had to train him. Like: "Hey there is snow outside and ice so why don't you help me to the car." then eventually he catches on and offers without me asking. I don't mind training him. But it would be nice to have someone who is just naturally aware of things.

We celebrated our 7 year date-a-versary last night. We've known each other for about 11 years. We've been married for just over 3 years now. I feel like we know each other so much better, our communication is rock solid and there is a certain ease that comes with time that makes it feel like we're very very tuned in and know how to make each other happy.

@anonysquire: this.

I strongly believe that oftentime you have to show someone how you expect to be treated! I did this when DH & I first met, and he caught on quickly. I also treat him how I expect to be treated, so that it is not one sided.

He is equally if not more affectionate. We've always had a very (outwardly) loving relationship. We HATE PDA but in our own privacy, he is super duper sappy:) and we've been together a total of 3.5 years but have known each other about 7.

@Mrs. Jacks: congrats ya'll! 7 year date-a-versarry haha...love this!

@TurtleDoves: Awww thanks. We definitely consider it our real anniversary, as it's the anniversary of when I took my head out of... well, you know... and saw what had been in front of me for so long!

@MsLipGloss: that's cute! I always forget to let him open the door when i get out of the car, so that's my fault.

@mrbee: No, no, it's a man thing. He's a man and bigger so he's supposed to be more steady. It's all in the law of physics maybe.

@anonysquire: Yes to this x1000. My dad opens car doors for my mom, my sister and myself. DH 's family was not big into manners and not at all into chivalry. DH has absolutely no manners, and the more I am around his mom the more I notice her doing the same things, or allowing FIL to do them. A lot of my frustration with DH is exactly that..I emotionally need certain things because to me they signify love and respect, but they just aren't even on his radar.

@anonysquire: I agree with this. All about how you were raised. DH was raised to open all doors for his Mom and grandma, and still does it today for me. I love my Southern Gentleman