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  1. LAZB

    pomegranate / 3904 posts

    @yellowbeach: @foodiebee: thanks for sympathizing ladies. I guess I’m worried now that these eggs won’t be good since they are taking so long, and we are throwing a good one away.
    Honestly, I’m less stressed than I was last week, I’m kind of giving up control, I’m just tired of feeling like shit from the meds. Plus, I’ve been fighting with my husband a lot, and the extra emotions are not helping.

  2. LAZB

    pomegranate / 3904 posts

    Hmmm, don’t know why my post didn’t show

  3. yellowbeach

    nectarine / 2648 posts

    @LAZB: must have been a second page issue. I hear you on giving up control. I go through phases where I am very detail focused (#of follicles, traveling lab levels, etc) and then other moments when I think to myself why bother. It’s a total mind fuck really. I just remind myself what will be will be. 😘

  4. LAZB

    pomegranate / 3904 posts

    @yellowbeach: you are so right, thanks

  5. foodiebee

    kiwi / 662 posts

    @LAZB: 10000% what was said above. Also, feeling like shit from the meds doesn't help you cope with the off-the-charts stress involved. As for the eggs not being good because they took too long, the reverse is that they'll be better because you gave them more time to cook at their own speed! I mean, this is what I told myself ...

  6. LAZB

    pomegranate / 3904 posts

    @foodiebee: I like your thinking

    Went in this morning, and I trigger tonight for retrieval Monday morning. So glad it’s finally happening

  7. jaguar

    pomegranate / 3764 posts

    @LAZB: YAY! Home stretch now, hang in there xx

  8. foodiebee

    kiwi / 662 posts

    @LAZB: Sending good thoughts your way today!

  9. LAZB

    pomegranate / 3904 posts

    @foodiebee: Thanks! Just woke up in recovery, and they got 8 eggs! So double what we thought

  10. yellowbeach

    nectarine / 2648 posts

    @LAZB: Hurray! Hoping for a great fertilization report tomorrow!

  11. LAZB

    pomegranate / 3904 posts

    @yellowbeach: thank you!

  12. yellowbeach

    nectarine / 2648 posts

    Saw my RE this morning for an E2 level and ultrasound for this transfer cycle. Lining is already 8.0 mm, and Estradiol is 286, so we are on track. Today is CD9, and that's after 9 days of estrace 2mg TID. Plan is for transfer of three abnormal embryos on 6/18. Will likely POAS on 6/25, or 7dp5dt.

  13. Mrs. Pajamas

    kiwi / 702 posts

    @LAZB: congrats!! Keep us posted

  14. LAZB

    pomegranate / 3904 posts

    @Mrs. Pajamas: thanks!
    @yellowbeach: sounds great!

  15. jaguar

    pomegranate / 3764 posts

    @LAZB: 8 eggs is wonderful!

  16. jaguar

    pomegranate / 3764 posts

    @yellowbeach: Eeee sounds really great!

  17. Mrs. Pajamas

    kiwi / 702 posts

    @jaguar: what's going on with you lady?

  18. LAZB

    pomegranate / 3904 posts

    @Mrs. Pajamas: @jaguar: thank you!! I missed the call from my RE, waiting to hear fertilization report. Nurse said it looks great on the voicemail, but I called back for details. Will report back

  19. LAZB

    pomegranate / 3904 posts

    All 8 fertilized normally! I can’t believe it!

  20. yellowbeach

    nectarine / 2648 posts

    @LAZB: wow great news on all the HB boards today!!! 💖

  21. Sams Mom

    grapefruit / 4492 posts

    @LAZB: heck yeah! That so exciting after everything you were concerned about!

  22. jaguar

    pomegranate / 3764 posts

    @LAZB: Omg! What a flipping brilliant start!!!

    @Mrs. Pajamas: 9 weeks today and somehow still have a baby in there. Getting pretty nervous for NIPT testing but one day at a time!

  23. LAZB

    pomegranate / 3904 posts

    @yellowbeach: @Sams Mom: @jaguar: thanks!! This is such a crazy process for sure, what a different place I’m in than a week ago

  24. foodiebee

    kiwi / 662 posts

    @jaguar: @LAZB: So excited to see these updates!!!
    @jaguar: SO freaking excited that you've reached the 9 week mark!
    @LAZB: What are your next steps? Are you testing? Freezing? Transferring?

  25. LAZB

    pomegranate / 3904 posts

    @foodiebee: we are freezing and testing, transfer probably in July or August depending on how my cycles line up.

    Actually, question for you ladies. We have a vacation in the middle of July (8-15) and another one at the beginning of August (1-7), would you just wait until the August cycle so as not to worry about traveling and early pregnancy? Or do you think it will be a good distraction? I think we can line up so we can do the transfer before the second vacation, but not 100% sure. I’ve travelled in early pregnancy before, but things are different now I guess

  26. Mrs. Pajamas

    kiwi / 702 posts

    @LAZB: that's such fabulous news! keep growing little ones! Honestly I would not worry about vacation scheduling or scheduling of anything for that matter because if you're committed to IVF frankly everything else in the world has to take a back seat. If you perfectly planned around vacations, fun parties where you want to drink, work stress, etc. you'd literally never start. So if your cycle window lines up sothat you won't be out of town for anything just go for it. I did my last FET 8 days before moving across country and taking a 10 day trip to Italy with a 22 month old. That little frostie is turning 2 next month! I thought it was crazy at the time, but it was the only window we had to try an FET and avoid shipping our embryos, find a new RE, etc. I was convinced it would never work with all that stress, but it did!

  27. foodiebee

    kiwi / 662 posts

    @LAZB: I'm not sure what I'd do with all that travel so close together. I totally see where Mrs. Pajamas is coming from and you probably can't go wrong either way, it's just a matter of what you and your husband feel comfortable with, you know?

  28. LAZB

    pomegranate / 3904 posts

    @Mrs. Pajamas: @foodiebee: thanks y’all. I think as long as the timing lines up he will probably just continue with a July transfer. Hopefully the second vacation will be a nice distraction while I wait for an ultrasound if I get a bfp

  29. jaguar

    pomegranate / 3764 posts

    @LAZB: And any distractions are good distractions!

  30. yellowbeach

    nectarine / 2648 posts

    Went to the RE this morning. Lining is still 8.0 and now trilaminar, so we are going to transfer on Thursday (instead of the 18th). Start PIO tonight!

  31. LAZB

    pomegranate / 3904 posts

    @yellowbeach: awesome! That’s nice to skip ahead!

  32. jaguar

    pomegranate / 3764 posts

    @yellowbeach: WOOHOO!

  33. LAZB

    pomegranate / 3904 posts

    4 of AA and BB quality tested and frozen! I’m feeling better, now we wait for genetic results which should be back in 10-14 days

  34. yellowbeach

    nectarine / 2648 posts

    @LAZB: that’s great! Assume they were all 5 day blasts? Will you ask to know the sex before transfer or no?

  35. LAZB

    pomegranate / 3904 posts

    @yellowbeach: yep, all 5 day blasts. And I think we will wait to ask the sex until after a positive test

  36. LAZB

    pomegranate / 3904 posts

    Two more also made it to blastocyst stage, but they said they were very poor quality and wouldn’t make a viable pregnancy or even make it to freeze or thaw

  37. jaguar

    pomegranate / 3764 posts

    @LAZB: That is a great result, fingers and toes are crossed.

    I'm doing NIPT bloods for this pregnancy tomorrow and am pretty nervous about an issue flagging up. Lots of waiting all round it seems!

  38. Mrs. Pajamas

    kiwi / 702 posts

    @LAZB: Fantastic news!! so happy for you!
    @jaguar: thinking good thoughts. you got this mama. we've all had that insane anxiety for sure.

  39. LAZB

    pomegranate / 3904 posts

    @jaguar: @Mrs. Pajamas: thanks!
    @jaguar: I’ll be thinking of you! Hope the results come back quick!

  40. yellowbeach

    nectarine / 2648 posts

    @jaguar: You are definitely in my thoughts

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