persimmon / 1045 posts
@JoJoGirl: I'm so sad to hear this - hugs to you.
I'm going through the exact thing, had 8w scan on Friday but baby was measuring 6.5w with no HB. Still haven't confirmed next steps as I needed some time to think. A friend did say to me that March 11 will never be the same again
I also hope it won't take too long after this to conceive a healthy baby - but I can't even think that far right now. Sorry this probably doesn't even help but at least know you're not alone. Xx
pomelo / 5607 posts
I'm so sorry. Lots of hugs. For what it's worth, I got pregnant the first month trying after my first miscarriage, and second month trying after my second. I'm sure you've had offers, but if you need to talk, done hesitate to wall me. Take care of yourself.
nectarine / 2834 posts
So sorry for your loss. That image and the horror I felt seeing our tiny baby with no heartbeat is forever seared into my mind. I'm sorry you had to experience it as well.
I got pregnant the next cycle but it ended in a cp. I took the next month off to give my body a chance to heal and then we got pregnant the next month.
honeydew / 7917 posts
I'm sorry for your loss. It took me 9 months to be ready to TTC, and I got pregnant right away. It was difficult for me, and I grieved for a long time. *big hugs*
pomegranate / 3764 posts
@JoJoGirl: Sending you lots of hugs and healing wishes. I'm so sorry for your loss.
nectarine / 2148 posts
I'm sorry to hear this. I had a miscarriage and my cycle started back about a month later. But I was not emotionally ready to ttc until 9 months later. I got pregnant right away but had a second miscarriage. Three months after I got pregnant with my son. No one ever said those words to me but if they did I would want to punch them out too.
pomelo / 5228 posts
The club is already too full, I don't want anyone else to join :(. Sorry for your loss...
nectarine / 2177 posts
I am crushed to hear this. I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. Sending so much love.
wonderful clementine / 24134 posts
@JoJoGirl: I am so sorry. It just sucks and people can't just seem to say that sometimes. There was no found medical reasons for mine.
The first time it took a good 6-8 months to get regular and get another positive. After that loss I got a positive right away and it was my sticky baby.
cantaloupe / 6630 posts
@JoJoGirl: I'm so sorry It took me four cycles (and one where we didn't try directly after the loss) to get pregnant again after a natural miscarriage. I do know a lot of people who conceived straight away though. Hugs.
pomegranate / 3231 posts
I'm really sorry for your loss.
I got pregnant (on the second try) at 35.5 and it was a missed miscarriage. Took a couple of months to get my cycle back, then I got pregnant with my son on the fourth cycle, a couple of months after my 36th birthday. However, I am pretty sure that Cycle 2.2 was a chemical pregnancy since there was a faint line. And I was really sick during Cycle 2.3 so we did not DTD.
So, a total of five actual tries right around age 36 resulted in two non-sticky pregnancies and one toddler.
cantaloupe / 6206 posts
Thank you all. I'm just pissed now. This sucks. Appreciate the support although i still can't wrap my mind around the fact that i've read so many m/c support threads in my years on HB and this one is directed at me
pomegranate / 3192 posts
@JoJoGirl: I'm so sorry, how completely devastating I had an early (natural) m/c but I got pregnant again right away (O'd about 3 weeks later). Fingers crossed you get pregnant quickly when you are ready. Hugs.
nectarine / 2797 posts
I'm so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself. I was able to get pregnant again about 4 months after D&C.
grapefruit / 4187 posts
I'm so sorry for your loss I had a mc in Feb, but it was a surprise pregnancy so we were never actually trying, and still haven't started. Don't feel frustrated for telling people about it too soon, you were allowed to be excited and are now allowed to mourn/heal.
pomegranate / 3331 posts
Oh I'm so sorry. We haven't ttc since my mc so I have no advice on that, but I just wanted to say I know how much it sucks and I'm sorry you had to join this club
eggplant / 11408 posts
I am so sorry Mine were natural, so I am not much help. But I wish you healing and peace.
@Pirouette: oh no, you, too?? Hugs, Mama
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