I just started a new job about a month ago. My husband and I were about to start trying and then held off to see if I got the job-and I did! It's a job and company I could see myself staying in for awhile, but it will also take me some time to ramp up and start proving myself. Ideally, I'd be in the job a year before getting pregnant but I'm 34 and know that conceiving could be a challenge.

So-what should I do? How long should I wait? I know I may not get FMLA if we try soon but I also am pretty sure I wouldn't get fired since it's a big healthcare company that makes a show of being family friendly. I also care about my career and don't want to jeopardize it by giving less than 100% in my first year of employment here. Ugh-any advice or thoughts?