Am I the only one who feels this way?

My LO is 25 months, and kid crafts are never fun at all with him! They are always so stressful and I wish I had never taken the time to even start a craft. Today's project was so basic....finger painting, using pom-poms to paint, and practicing glue stick. First, it feels like he has zero attention span for this sort of activity, so I'm begging him to even do it for more than thirty seconds, which feels really frustrating if I took the time to buy and set up the materials. If I am successful, then his only real interest is not the activity, but the materials, and how much he can manipulate them in ways that are not ok, like painting directly on the table, so then I end up spending "fun" time asking him to please don't glue stick the table, etc., and losing my patience as he begs for bottles of paint, etc., that I know he only wants to use to dump out onto the workspace. Then he asks me to do the project for him (one of his favorite pastimes is getting me to draw things for him, so he will ask me repeatedly to draw a train, draw Daniel Tiger, draw a pig, etc.). Every time I get out a coloring book for him, it ends with me drawing things for him at his insistence!

The only thing he was remotely interested in today was using the pom pom to paint (although he would have been happier just smooshing it around on the palette and not even applying it to paper), and then dumping glitter all over the place-- everywhere but the table!

I feel like I make my activities for him too complex, but his attention span is so short that I feel like I need a million options to hold his interest!

Basically I think that all of Pinterest-Sensory-Industrial complex is a ruse. Some kids are into this stuff, and others are not. My son can get immersed in Duplos for an hour, but art holds no appeal for him. I feel like I'm making it worse for him by making it into a chore, and imposing a bunch of rules.