my son's hair is super thick, and as hard as i try to train his part so it sweeps to the side as it gets longer, it ends up straight down (and/or up/sideways) 90% of the time. i am thinking we need to incorporate some light gel into the morning brush to see if that helps. anyone have any product recommendations?

please also feel free to tell me i'm doing it wrong as i really don't get boys haircuts. we've been sticking with scissor cuts for now but i'm wondering if doing more of a buzz cut might help. just feels too grown up for my little guy.