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kiwi / 742 posts
I can't physically go longer than 15 minutes, and I'm ok with that. Sometimes hubs will try to go longer but it just won't happen.
eggplant / 11861 posts
It differs, but our nornal DTD from start to finish os about 30mons with 10 mins of that foreplay....
Can I add this makes me sad ...lol
Ever since we found out we are expecting DH will not DTD he is afraid it was sweet at first but, 2 weeks later I'm dying. ......lol
grapefruit / 4770 posts
I hate sex! There I said it. And all this ttc sex sucks!!! That being said even our usual 8-15min is too long! I'd be happier with 1-7!
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21628 posts
@dc yoga bee: you hate sex?!? I agree that TTC sex sucks.
eggplant / 11861 posts
@dc yoga bee: TTC sex does suck, has ir made you hate swx or arw you just not a fan?
grapefruit / 4770 posts
@Leialou: @FaithFertility: I've always just not been a fan. And dh could do it every single day of the week!! Although when I do yoga regularly I have a higher libido.
persimmon / 1183 posts
We've been together 14 years.
As teens, both of our libidoes were CRAZY. I make no joke when I say that our sessions lasted all day, only stopping to eat or go to the bathroom. We'd climax multiple times a day. I'd go to his house at 10am and leave around 10pm. And we'd even "do it" in public on the way home. (hidden from view). It was insane the amount of drive we had.
As we got older, it definitely whittled down. I can definitely attribute this to the stabilization of hormones.
Now we dtd averaging three times a week. An average session lasts about 30minutes (including foreplay but not including after-cuddles).
We can't do multiple consecutive sessions anymore. At most we'll dtd twice in one day (one in the morning, one at night) but that is rare.
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