My 3 year old is in this phase right now where she wants a certain parent to do something for her/with her. I think it's more of a "what can I get away with" thing, or possibly stalling or seeing how much control she has over a situation.
For example, when we are doing the bedtime routine if I start to brush her teeth she will say she wants daddy to, or if I start reading a book she will say she wants daddy to read. I try and not let it hurt my feelings, sometimes I will let him go ahead and do it but sometimes I won't. Or I will say mommy can read half of the book and then daddy can read the other half. Unfortunately, LO2 is picking up on these habits as well.
Does your LO do this? If so, how do you handle it? I don't want it to turn into a thing where she thinks she can control us...but I also want to choose my battles!