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@karenbme: Thank you for the logic.
It is amazing, I can be very logical (and site sources) when I can "feel" for someone but am not as highly EMOTIONALLY invested in something as if it were "me;" however, once I involve myself, I lose all logic and falter to being "any woman TTC with 2ndary infertility." Sad, really. π€·ββοΈ
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@Sams Mom: Thank you! β£ I did not research thus far. You ARE amazing!
I will admit to checking further (on "non-scholarly" sites) and found the following:
I won't know for sure until 14-16 dpo and if my RE affords me a beta. π€¦ββοΈ
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Page 22 Update:
β’ 3/4 - Drackomalfoy
β’ 3/6 - Jessiemuller88 - :
: (In our hearts)
β’ 3/12 - FuzzyPeaches
β’ 3/19 - Paranundrum
β’ 3/19 - Kaohinani- :
: -November mama?
β’ 3/19 - Yellowbeach - : : -November mama?
β’ 3/20 - Ms.Hangry
β’ 3/20 - Karenbeme - :
: - (November mama)
β’ 3/24 - Bees_knees
β’ 3/25 - Sam's Mom
β’ 3/28 - Blythe
β’ 3/28 - BreakOutTheIceCream - : : - (November mama)
β’ 3/29 - JennyLayneAZ
β’ TBD:
β’ No POAS date:
β’ Drop-In BFP: BunBun - : : - (Many hugs)
β’ Drop-In BFP: Chuckles - : : - (November mama)
Good luck, ladies!
β’ BhBee
β’ Lazb - : : - November mama?
β’ MrsJBeeG
β’ GraceandJoy* For any of you ladies who receive a "BFP," Adira had set up a Nov 2019 Mommy board a bit ago. (Please note, the December 2019 Mama's board will be set up a bit later this month):
http://boards.hellobee.com/topic/november-2019-mamas#post-2873473So many of us who "aren't sure!!!!" Aaaaah! π€ͺ
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@Kaohinani: I feel like Iβm that person too, so I get it. Even with my strong line Iβve googled molar pregnancy already because weβve had so many problems, that this βcanβt beβ so strong for no reason. One of the things my therapist always tells me (and has me repeat back to her) is βthereβs no reason this time wonβt be different.β Iβm trying to hold that in my heart, and I hope the same for you.
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@karenbme: SOOOOOO many *hugs*. I get it. (* Actually, it has been what I have advised others over so I ABSOLUTELY get it, especially in theory!) I appreciate you so much atm.
You, Yellowbeach, Sam's Mom, Lazb, FuzzyPeaches, Jessiemuller88, Paranundrum and I are so connected in this "quest" for a baby.
I "try" and live for each moment (* with positivity) but with each passing cycle I find I am a shade "jaded." I am having a glass of cabernet as we speak bc IDK if "it" is real. I will find out if "IT" is a true BFP, evap/indent, defective test, or bad luck in a few days.
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@Kaohinani: I do that too. I sometimes purposefully have a glass of wine bc I donβt want to βjinxβ myself lol.
Oh what a tough process this is -
Ok, had my friend with her tubes tied take a test, and she had a line, but a real squinter. Hers is the bottom
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@LAZB: well that's some bull
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@LazB: This is some bull
@Sams Mom: Iβve looked into this before and found them to have very little social media presence. The parent company has a Fb page, but I think thatβs about it. #butimnotbitter π
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@Sams Mom: right?!?
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@yellowbeach: I know!
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@LAZB: oh man
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@fuzzypeaches: how are you doing? Will you test again tomorrow?
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So we need to start a hashtag (#FRERfail #FRERindent #FRER=everyoneispregnant) or start a communal insta (FRERfail?) that everyone can add pictures to. Is that a thing? #obviouslyidontinsta
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Oh my, so much has been going on!
@Kaohinani: and @Yellowbeach I want this to be it for you so badly!
Congratulations to @Karenbeme and @Chuckles, I'm so happy for you!
@LAZB: That's crazy how many FRERs have false positives. With that said, some of them are true positives too, why not yours?
I'm in club coverline today. My temp is all the way down and I've been feeling like AF's right around the corner since yesterday or the day before. I'm guessing I'll start a new cycle today or tomorrow.
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@LAZB: Agreed with everyone else, this is total
@paranundrum: Sorry youβre feeling out. βΉοΈ
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Ok, I think I get to stay in limbo for yet another day (but at least not out, right?):
Same outcome as yesterday. Negative tests right at read mark again. Showered and peeked again, faint lines on both (bottom pic). π
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@Chuckles: ugh. 9fpo bfn. Am feeling really out and depressed
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@yellowbeach: I definitely see yours!
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@yellowbeach: Thatβs def still limbo, but lines are a really good sign... Fingers crossed that your outside the window lines show up inside the window in the next couple days. π€π€
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@fuzzypeaches: Sorry, mama. 9 dpo is still really early so youβre not totally out yet. Hopefully things change over the next couple days
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CD 23 & finally got my positive
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@fuzzypeaches: ugh. I'm sorry. I'm hoping that's it's just too early for you, but I get it. That's how I felt last month. I got a bfn at 11dpo and just knew I wasn't pregnant so I stopped taking my progesterone before checking in with my RE - and then got in trouble with the nurse
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@yellowbeach: oh yes I see it!!!!
@mrskansas: get to it! -
Happy St.Patrick's Day, everyone! Are you all wearing your green?
@paranundrum: Thank you!
@Yellowbeach: Ugh, the "line limbo" is the worst!
@fuzzypeaches: 9 dpo is still super early! I know you always seem to get early BFPs, but, honestly, when you will get a BFP is all so very variable (* How fast the ovum ruptures from the follicle, movement and speed of the blastocyst, implantation date [from 5 dpo the ultimate earliest - 13 being the absolute latest], and THEN HCG doubling rate.). So. Many. Factors . That stated, I hope you get your BFP. π€
@mrskansas: Beautiful lines on your OPK! I hope you have a nice strong OV!
@Sams Mom: How is your chart today? Have you definitively OVed? π€
@Karenbeme: How is your morning? Feeling "pregnant" yet?
AFM, I didn't test today (and after seeing Lazb's FRER test, IDK if I would trust it anyway. @Lazb: I am so sorry that you are in the line limbo!
Below, is a pic of my little leprechauns
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@Kaohinani: cuties!
And just because I had two more tests I decided to take them knowing they are bunk. Here are today's tests -
I'll call frer later today
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@LAZB: Seriously, those are really convincing as BFPs! Were it me, I would be super-p!ssed!!! Are we absolutely certain you aren't KU? I mean, they are pink-tinted and your friend's was light and gray.
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@LAZB: honestly I think they are positive.... I kind of wonder if itβs a chemical π€·ββοΈ Not that thatβs amazing but I have never seen such consistent bfps not be real!
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@Kaohinani: @fuzzypeaches: I guess it could be a chemical, I might go for a beta tomorrow. Here is progression top to bottom is Thursday through today.
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@mrskansas: time to DTD!
@LAZB: That could totally be a chemical
@Kaohinani: Your chart looks so good, as do your kiddos!! Iβm trying everything I can think of to stay positive. I donβt really feel pregnant yet, but I have a lot of the early symptomsβhunger, thirst, constipation, headache, breast pain, smell, weird tastesβbut Iβve had these symptoms before, ya know? I keep reminding myself that Iβm so much earlier than I ever would have been before.
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@LAZB: Hmmm, π€ Yesterday's looks the darkest. Either your urine was more concentrated or it is a chemical. Honestly, I don't know π€·ββοΈ. I would, definitely, go for betas just to figure out what is up.
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@karenbme: Most "real" BFP symptoms do not start until one is in the 5th/6th week, so I wouldn't worry. The earliest symptoms (* all those you described), usually begin at 3.5/4 weeks along, so you are where you should be.
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@LAZB: yes especially when I see them like that! It kind of looks like the chemical I had last month (hcg maxed out at 15 so super low)
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@Kaohinani: I do think my urine was more diluted today, it was suuuuuper light this morning because I had tons of water last night before bed.
@karenbme: @fuzzypeaches: I agree it could be a chemical, but I don't know if it "matters" at this point since we are going to do IVF anyway. Like, I'm afraid to know I've had another loss, so I'm hesitant to get betas done. I know that's totally contridicted by the fact that I keep taking tests, but I'm an addict so I can't control my poas habit -
It's maybe a slow rise, but tomorrow can adjust today or yesterdays π€·ββοΈ
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@Kaohinani: Thanks for the positivity.
@LAZB: You should do what feels best for you. I get not wanting to feel another loss, especially since youβve already decided on a plan.
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Ugh and now I have a fever π€
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So we had a bit of toddler tooth trauma today
Sam was playing outside at my parent's house, got to running too fast, tripped and fell. He stands up with blood on his face crying, so I picked him up. His front right tooth was pushed back at a 45Β° angle. π€’
I know it's a baby tooth that would fall out eventually, but I couldn't handle it. Now I'm stressing about what happens. Like should we take him to the dentist tomorrow? Email his pediatrician for advice?
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@Sams Mom: definitely call the dentist in the AM. Damaged baby teeth often need to come out so that they donβt damage the adult tooth underneath.
: (In our hearts)
: -November mama?
: - (November mama)
Good luck, ladies! 
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