I'm just starting research to buy our first minivan, and am a little overwhelmed already even though there aren't that many out there! I'm sure a lot of you have already done this research so I'd love to know your thoughts.

1) What seat configuration is best? It seems like the second row could either be two captain's chairs, or two plus a removable third? Right now we have a 3 year old and a 1 year old, with a possible #3 next year.

2) Is the AWD on the Sienna worth it? It seems like they are the only ones that offer AWD. We live in MA and while this winter has been mild, last winter I literally could not drive my crappy Front Wheel Drive car some days because I was sliding all over the place! But my car is is a tiny hatchback (Nissan Versa) and I'm wondering if in a bigger car maybe the AWD vs Front isn't as big of deal?

Thanks in advance