I am Chinese and the DH is German/Polish so the LO is mixed. People love to debate if she looks more Caucasian or Asian, especially our families. I think each side secretly wants her to look more like them. My LO has always looked more Asian so my family is happy. DH's side will say things like "Oh, hopefully she'll look a little bit like us one day". No one says it in a mean way -- I don't think. If your LO is mixed, what type of discussions do people have surrounding his/her looks?