I went out with my SIL for my first girl's day since B was born. While out, I had TWO people ask if I was pregnant/what my due date is. One such conversation was particularly mortifying.
Her: You're pregnant?
Me: No, I just had a baby.
Her: How long ago?
Me: 9 weeks.
Her: Oh. Have you started exercising?
Me: Not yet. It's hard to find time.
Her: You should probably start.
Thank you for making me even more insecure with my fatness.
coconut / 8430 posts
@rahlyrah: How incredibly rude!!!!!!
Don't pay any attention to that woman. She should be mortified at how rude and insensitive she just was!
pineapple / 12526 posts
Omg! What a bitch!
Sorry for the language, i just... Oh man. So rude, I cant even handle it.
coconut / 8305 posts
I agree with @MrsH! It her that should be mortified at being so incredibly ignorant!
pomegranate / 3890 posts
@rahlyrah: oh my gosh, screw that lady! you JUST had a baby! im so sorry you had to deal with someone like that.
seriously, don't listen to her.
GOLD / coconut / 8266 posts
@rahlyrah: oh my goodness, my jaw dropped! That was incredibly rude of her.
papaya / 10473 posts
Wut. The. F. You *just* had a baby! What an ignorant and rude comment! I'd rather be fat than be a rude biatch.
And p.s. - I've seen you on IG and you look great!
clementine / 780 posts
Wow. Just wow!
Im so sad people like that exist and are out in public
pomegranate / 3729 posts
People are so f-ing rude and stupid. Seriously. You JUST had a baby!!! I am seriously pissed off by comments like this (i had a similar experience and it still gets me heated to think about a year later).
You have nothing to be mortified about. Whoever said that to you should be ashamed of themselves. And, I am guessing she has never given birth before.
grapefruit / 4187 posts
Wow, i probably would have told her i thought her comment was really rude. Or you can say "well i may be fat but at least i still have my manners!"
pineapple / 12802 posts
My jaw just dropped! What a crazy bitch! So ignorant and rude and like everyone else has said, SHE should be the mortified one, not you. Please don't listen to her. God. People sometimes.
pomegranate / 3003 posts
I can't believe how forward and rude that woman was! I'm so sorry you had to experience that, today.
Ugh. I probably would have told her where she could shove her ignorance. You seriously *just* had a baby - finding time to work out is freakin' hard. Screw her.
grapefruit / 4819 posts
WTF? People are idiots! You should have asked her if she was getting enough sleep and then told her she should probably get more so she can engage her brain before she speaks next time and not come across as such a rude, insensitive twat.
Ugh, I'm sorry.
pomelo / 5820 posts
What an idiot! You just had a baby. JUST had a baby!! What's her excuse for being a thoughtless b*tch?? So many things to say to someone like that, but honestly, she's not worth the effort. Don't take it to heart, people are just mean and dumb.
blogger / pomelo / 5400 posts
@rahlyrah: I consider myself a fairly non confrontational person, but I think I may have had some choice words for her
eggplant / 11408 posts
Um, whoa. Pay no attention to her, beautiful lady!! You don't deserve that!!
GOLD / pineapple / 12662 posts
WHAT A BITCH. In fact, that was so effin bitchy that she made (at least in that one instance) other bitches look nicer.
GOLD / squash / 13464 posts
What.the.hell. You are a stronger woman than I for not punching her in her big mouth. She's obviously never had a baby and has no clue.
watermelon / 14206 posts
What?? Who said that?? I hope you said that SHE needs to work out! How rude!
pomelo / 5000 posts
Mortifying for her! That is mean and oh so rude. Just remember what they say--karma is a B word!
pineapple / 12234 posts
Wtf!? That's so ridiculously mean and uncalled for. You JUST had him. I got this comment 5 months pp and it killed me a little.
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