watermelon / 14467 posts
What the heck! How incredibly rude of her! You just had a baby for crying out loud, it's okay if you aren't looking like a model.
It's mean, but I hope she gets really really fat when she's pregnant.
GOLD / pomelo / 5737 posts
That's disgusting. I have trouble exercising almost a year out but I can find time if I prioritize. At 9 weeks pp no way!!. So rude.
pear / 1650 posts
UMMMMMMM WTH?!?! That is beyond rude. Your body JUST delivered a beautiful, healthy baby into this world. She needs to get slapped.
clementine / 943 posts
Maybe she meant you COULD start? Like, you're all healed up from having the baby so there's no reason you can't go...?
I don't know, I have a hard time understanding when people are blatantly rude like that so I guess I try to assume they didnt MEAN to be such an obvious bitch....*shrug*
I don't know. I'm sorry that happened. I got back in the gym three weeks PP but weight watchers was what really got my baby weight off. Not that you asked or even need to worry about that stuff, but when you do get around go it, I thought it was good, and easy (ie, good for mamas who can't get to the gym).
pear / 1799 posts
@rahlyrah: Are you f*cking kidding me?!? People are seriously ridiculous!! I'm sorry you had to deal with that ... I am sure it was really uncomfortable for you. Poor thing!
It astonishes me that people think that someone else's body is a topic of acceptable conversation. Even if it's your best friend, or worse, a stranger ... I just wish people knew that talking about bodies and what they 'should' look like is totally not okay.
Also, good for you for doing a girls day! I hope you do more soon!!
blogger / pomegranate / 3491 posts
That is awful - I am so sorry you had to suffer from interacting with someone so inconsiderate...
bananas / 9973 posts
That is beyond rude! I've heard a good response is "I just had a baby, what's YOUR excuse?" But that's kind of snarky.
GOLD / cantaloupe / 6703 posts
That is horrible! She ought to learn to keep her mouth shut or get a roll of duct tape!
grapefruit / 4669 posts
Who would say that? She definitely needed to be punched. If she goes through life like that, it will probably happen at some point.
bananas / 9899 posts
Wow I would have responded with "You should probably work on not being a dickwad too".
blogger / pomelo / 5361 posts
Wow. Just wow. Do NOT give that woman's words a second thought. Ridic.
pomelo / 5524 posts
My response back to her would have been, "Looks like you need to start as well!"
People need to keep their opinions to themselves!
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