I saw this today. LOL!!
Told the DH we need to make sure our kids know how to do this.
I saw this today. LOL!!
Told the DH we need to make sure our kids know how to do this.
blogger / nectarine / 2010 posts
I mailed out invitations to a party last summer and dh asked me if I licked all the stamps. He had no idea that they have been stickers for quite some time. I think if it were serious enough he could mail something, but I'm pretty sure he would ask someone to do it for him.
hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25556 posts
Oh dear. Yes, she will be sending letters (specifically thank you notes) as soon as she can write!!
watermelon / 14467 posts
Oh dear. I will definitely make sure my kids know how to write and send a letter.
clementine / 797 posts
Oh boy. That's bad but I did laugh my way through the dad's story.
My future kiddos will learn to send thank you cards-not emails-as soon as possible.
grapefruit / 4731 posts
@Mrs. Polish: Haha! ^_^
I'm the only one out of my friends that actually mail our invites anymore... most people do evites or something. Most of my friends evited their wedding also.... So weird!
I really like getting something other than junk in the mail, which is why I think I like mailing things out.
grapefruit / 4235 posts
It's pretty funny but he should have been making his son write thank you notes a long time ago.
watermelon / 14206 posts
My DS does...he and my niece correspond quite often. He also sees me write letters and understands the concepts.
nectarine / 2127 posts
My brother is 24 and has no clue. He mailed me a check for a present we'd gone in on together and he didn't put his address or a stamp, just my address. Shockingly, it made it to me and the postman hit me up for the cost of the stamp lol.
cantaloupe / 6730 posts
So weird. He obviously never receives mail either. How can he have gone through that much of life and never noticed how Aunt Ida's birthday cards came?
wonderful olive / 19353 posts
Oh man... No bueno!!
In elementary school, we had a day dedicated to learning about the post office/mailing mail! We would write a letter to our parents, learn to address the envelope, then we'd hop on the bus and go to the post office, stand in line to purchase a stamp, put the stamp on, then drop it off in the mailbox. Then we toured the facility learning how they sort mail, etc. It was so cool!
While email and texting is so much easier than calling/writing a letter. I still enjoy mailing out invitaions and thank you cards. There's just something so much more sentimental about a hand written letter/card; and getting something in the mail that's not a bill or junk mail.
hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts
@Grace: That is true! Guess he didn't bother to notice.
blogger / coconut / 8306 posts
Oh man.
My industry depends on mail and letters!
I'm going to start a campaign to save the handwritten letter!!
coconut / 8472 posts
Ha, this is so going to be my kids. I hate mail, hate the paper waste it incurs, and much prefer everything to be electronic.
GOLD / cantaloupe / 6581 posts
Haha, well, I'm going to be that parent making my kid write thank you notes, so she'll know how to mail em! I still find it surprising that out of my 6 nieces/nephews, I have never gotten a single thank you note, either emailed or mailed! Are they just not taught anymore?
GOLD / wonderful pomegranate / 28905 posts
Honestly I'm wondering when our kids are older if the Post Office will even still be around!
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
Hahah OMG I have such a hard time believing this!
I had pen pals as a kid and of course there are birthday cards and thank you notes. J will definitely know this life skill lol
Oh I also plan to be intentional about hand writing! Penmanship is a lost art.
nectarine / 2936 posts
That's bad. My second graders have to learn to write friendly letters and address envelopes (including stamps).
coconut / 8472 posts
For those of you who say your kids will grow up writing thank you notes - who are they going to write them to? Formal thank you's to grandparents for christmas/b-day presents? Do the people you intend to send them to you send thank you's to you already? For example, if it's your parents, are you all writing each other thank you's after Christmas?
I've just never done this except for our wedding. Growing up I was expected to call my grandparents and thank them for gifts, but never actually wrote anything.
GOLD / wonderful pomegranate / 28905 posts
@MrsCB: agree. In my culture it's not common to write thank you notes. It's a foreign/American concept to me.
I think for birthdays we would do the TY card if the USPS is still around. For everything else? The people who will gift them will kinda be there to personally thank or I think a phone call is more apt.
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
@MrsCB: we do it for birthdays, gifts, etc. we never did it for Christmas.
My SIL is soooo proper and knows all the rules of etiquette. She sends a TY for EVERYTHING. She sent me a TY card for going out to lunch with her once!
I think it's a nice gesture!
clementine / 811 posts
Oh, I work in a high school and this happens All. The. Time. Seniors have to send transcripts and scholarship applications. It is so sad. This and they never know how to write a check.
coconut / 8472 posts
@regberadaisy: LOL, I don't have much cultural affiliations except "American" and it's a foreign concept to me! Except for weddings and showers, when people suddenly become very conscious of etiquette.
@Mrs. Pen: So you, your parents, and your siblings/siblings-in-law all write formal thank you's for birthday gifts to each other? I am way too lazy for that :-P.
coconut / 8472 posts
@HazelEyes: I would be happy if I never had to write another check again for the rest of my life. I hate them, and don't even have any. I think everything should be electronic and the check needs to go the way of the dodo bird.
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
@MrsCB: not everyone does, but most of us do. We all wrote thanks you's for our bridal showers, wedding, baby showers, birthdays; and I wrote thank you's to everyone who came to J's birthday and also all the people who sent gifts or cards. I wouldn't say they're formal- but they're hand written!
clementine / 811 posts
@MrsCB: Agreed. But, at least in our school, there are plenty of things that checks have to be written for--summer school, field trips... Or a money order. (Which I honestly had no idea how to use until this job). Regardless, at least with mail, you would have to see incoming mail at your house, right? So I always think it shouldn't be completely unfamiliar looking??
bananas / 9357 posts
LOL! I'll make sure my children know how to address an envelope. That is if the post office still exists!
@MrsCB: Your comment on checks reminds me of something that happened to me last weekend. I was at a store waiting in line. The woman who was checking out was writing a check meanwhile going on and on about how she doesn't understand why no one uses checks anymore and how cards are unnecessary. Her total was like over $200 so that meant a looooong description of the total. She writes it all out and then looks and goes "oops, what am I doing?" She wrote it out on the "to" line. Argh! She scribbles the whole thing and has to start a new one. All while a huge line is starting to form. I think she answered her own question as to why people don't use checks anymore. Another checker came and I was done before she was even done writing her next check. lol Use your fing debit card next time!
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