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@Ms. Lilbunny: In general, day sleep is much harder to regulate than night sleep; the part of the brain that controls naps is slower to develop than the part that controls night sleep. Therefore most people try to night train first. It's amazing that you're having success with nap training at this early age. If nights are working for you, and you're on a time crunch to get naps situated, then why stress yourself out night training too?
You can try night training later on, since he's already doing pretty well. (fwiw, 1-2 wakeups for 12 weeks is not "ok," it's fantastic). I used to do the same thing, nurse last. I thought my LO would freak out if I changed the routine but it turned out he was fine with it.

Feeding to sleep isn't always problem, particularly if your LO is happily transferring from boob to bed and then sleeping a good stretch. If it's working for you then don't feel like you need to make changes just because

I tried to night train at the same time with nap training. My LO would always cry when I transferred her to the crib. Now, it's pretty smooth getting her in the crib for bedtime and most times for naps, but she won't nap for more than 30 mins, and I end up holding her for the remainder of her nap. I don't know what it is about naps but it seems harder to train. But I say at least try. Any kind of improvement is good! I tried training LO at 9 weeks. I wish I could get 6-7 hour stretch of sleep! Your nights seem fantastic.

@Ms. Lilbunny: what do you do when he wakes up early for the day? My LO does this also and I just end up nursing her back to sleep until it's time to wake up. I don't know if that's good or bad.

If you find a nap solution that works, let me know!

If everything is working for you, then no need to change it. But, you may want to do night training (to fall asleep, not wean) if/when night wake-ups start happening more often. My second LO was an awesome night sleeper but I wanted to train her before the 4 month sleep regression, because I remember how bad and long it seemed with my first. My second recently went through a short spurt of waking up more than once at night and could put herself right back to sleep, and for that I am very thankful! I am sure we aren't out of the woods yet at 16 weeks...time will tell.

@Ms. Lilbunny: 4 month sleep regression is the only that affected my firsts night sleep. The rest of them were little blips that caused him to not settle as easily for naps and sometimes wake earlier in the morning. They didn't last long. Don't know if that had to do it the sleep training or not. We did our first at 6 months using CIO with checks. Our second we did at almost 3 months. We did naps and bedtime at the same time. First night CIO, with checks but the checks upset her a lot more, so switched to extinction - much quicker! It wasn't a magical 3/4 days and done. Just steady progress for a little less than 2 weeks. She started out with short naps and couldn't get past the first sleep cycle, but I could extend them by holding her or putting her in the swing during those 2 weeks. Once she stopped crying before naps, I let her fuss at her 30 minute wake ups and now she has longer naps. Sounds like things are going well for you!

@Ms. Lilbunny: when he misses his nap, is he cranky or content?

My baby is always cranky when she wakes up, and will be that way until I feed her, no matter how recently she ate. Is that normal?

@Ms. Lilbunny: Focus on the positives! It was very slow for us too. The worst night was night 11, and then it seems like things stayed good after that. I had gotten some good advice from others about naps and noticed my wake time wasn't long enough for my daughter to really be tired at nap time. Even though she was having short crap naps, she needed a little more awake time in order to have a really good nap. Timing can be so tricky! I think a combination of her being a little bit older and stretching out the awake time is what ended up making the naps successful. This was after 2 weeks of sleep training. And her wake time seems to be stretching even more now. It's amazing how much she has changed from 12 weeks to 16 weeks. So, there is a lot of hope for things to keep improving. Even if it's slower than you would like. Good luck!