Ok...my OOT friend is not coming to the concert with me, to fly back here was $370, a bit pricey for a super quick mid week trip.

So I did something and it's messy...

I reached out to a good friend's fiance. She just moved here to start her residency. Me and her aren't friends, but we get along. And she's on time. So I sent her a FB message, wrote on her wall to direct her to the message and texted my friend to ask her to check her FB message. I did this several hours ago and I know she was on FB because she posted to her wall. No response from either of them.

DH has been getting antsy about the ticket and kept asking me if I contacted my local friend. Due to radio silence with my back up I just did. She immediately responded and is stoked! I told her I would know for sure by Friday. Now, I am still worried about her being late, but she was super excited and that warmed my heart.

How do I get out of the back up? I don't want to wait for a response especially if she says Yes only for me to tell her No. I want to send her a wrap up FB message ASAP.