Recently what is the most hurtful and nicest thing someone has said to you?

Meanest: the day I was going to confirm my miscarriage DH's work partner said "you need to stop having all these damn babies" ..knowing full well what DH was leaving for, and that we have no kids.

Nicest: A woman passed me walking into the grocery store and stopped, turn around and came back over to me and said that i was so beautiful and reminded me of her daughter who recently passed, and seeing me just made her cry because her daughter was such a great person and she could tell i was too., Dh thought it was weird but she was just the sweetest lady