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I'm so very sorry for your loss.

I had a natural miscarriage at 6 weeks (miscarriage took a week to start after I first found out), and a d&c at 12 weeks. The 6 week one was hardest because I was so unsure when it would start, and it took forever to finish. While the d&c was rough (in the sense that i was recovering from surgery), it was so much easier mentally. And the recovery really wasn't bad, but I did need DHs help the first few days while
I was weak and to get me meds.

I am so sorry for your loss. Make the decision that feels right for YOU, and don't feel pressured into anything you don't want to do. Take whatever time you need to grieve.